The Sacrament of Marriage: Preparing for a Lifetime of Love
Congratulations on Your Engagement!
What a joyful and exciting time for you both! Your decision to enter into the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony is a beautiful testament to your love for one another and your faith in God. Here at Blessed Sacrament, we are thrilled for you and honored to walk with you as you prepare for this sacred commitment.
The Beauty of Sacramental Marriage
In the Catholic Church, marriage is more than a contract; it is a sacred and lifelong covenant. It is a Vocation through which a husband and wife, by their mutual self-gift, become a powerful and visible sign of Christ's unconditional love for His Church.
This beautiful life of self-giving love is nourished and strengthened by the Eucharist. We believe a strong marriage is a "Eucharistic" marriage, rooted in Christ's own sacrifice and love, which we celebrate at the altar of Blessed Sacrament.
Our Journey Together: Your Marriage Preparation
Because we are so committed to helping you build a strong and grace-filled marriage that lasts a lifetime, our parish and diocese provide a comprehensive preparation journey. This is a gift of time for you to grow together as a couple and deepen your understanding of this beautiful sacrament.
The process typically includes:
- An Initial Meeting with a Priest: Your first step is to contact one of our priests at least six to nine months before your anticipated wedding date to begin the conversation.
- A Relationship Assessment: Using a tool like FOCCUS, you'll gain valuable insights into your relationship, affirming your strengths and highlighting areas for growth.
- A Formal Preparation Program: You will participate in a program like Pre-Cana, designed to help you discuss important topics and build a solid foundation for your life together.
- Planning Your Wedding Liturgy: As your wedding day approaches, you will work with our priest and music director to plan the beautiful details of your ceremony.
Planning Your Wedding Liturgy
This is your sacred day, and we want to help you make the liturgy a beautiful and personal reflection of your love. Here are some resources to guide you:
- Wedding Liturgy Planning Form (Online)
- Wedding Liturgy Planning Form (Printable)
- Suggested Scripture Readings
- Suggested Music Selections
- Wedding Reminders for Blessed Sacrament
- FAQ – Catholic Marriage
Ready to Begin?
We are so excited to walk with you on this path to Holy Matrimony. To begin the marriage preparation process, please contact the parish office to schedule a meeting with one of our priests.
- Phone: (315) 437-3394
- Email: bscfaith@bscstvsyr.org